Safety & privacy

GoLove AI is Cyprus-based with discreet billing and no public incidents. Verdict: yes with standard caveats.

Janitor.AI is safe: it's free to use, has no breach history, and BYO-key users choose the LLM provider that handles their chats.

Candy.ai is mostly safe: a Malta company with no public breaches, but your chats are kept up to three years and used to train its AI.

CrushOn.AI is mostly safe: no public breaches, standard payment processor, but chats and characters are stored server-side, can train its AI, and have no fixed retention period.

DarLink AI has no public breach but billing is not discreet: the merchant descriptor is explicit. Mostly safe with a specific caveat.

DreamBF.ai is mostly safe: a 2024-launched companion app with no public breaches, standard third-party payments and the usual server-side storage caveats.

DreamGF is mostly safe: a Romanian operator under the GDPR, card payments without an adult descriptor, no known breaches. Main caveat: chat and image history stays on their servers.

EroLove is mostly safe: a named Portuguese company under GDPR and cookies you can decline, but a perpetual licence on images made in your chats.

GirlfriendGPT has no public breach incidents but stores chat logs server-side. Privacy verdict: mostly safe with standard caveats.

Joi AI has no public breach incidents. Verdict: mostly safe with standard server-side storage caveats.

Kupid AI is mostly safe: no public breaches, standard payment stack, and typical password-protected accounts. Main caveat: chats are stored server-side.

Lovescape has no public breach but no E2E encryption. Verdict: mostly safe, privacy is not the priority.

Nectar.AI is mostly safe: live since 2023, with no public breaches, standard third-party payments, and the cleanest record of any voice-enabled competitor to Muah.

OurDream AI is mostly safe: no breaches and encryption at rest and in transit. But its homepage promise of end-to-end encryption doesn't match its own privacy policy, which says your data trains its AI.

Promptchan is mostly safe: no public breaches, standard payment stack, and user-controlled deletion of generated images. Main caveat: image prompts are stored.

Secrets AI has no public breach history but stores generated media server-side. Verdict: mostly safe with standard caveats, especially around video content.

SpicyChat is mostly safe: no public breaches, standard payment processor, but your chat history and public characters are stored server-side.

Swipey.AI has no public breach. Standard category privacy posture. Mostly safe.

VenusX is mostly safe: a named US operator whose AI providers don't train on your chats, but analytics run without a cookie banner and media links are public.

Xeve is mostly safe: a named German operator, EU data storage and no training on your chats, but generated videos open from public links.

Xtease.AI has no public breach history. Verdict: mostly safe. Generated media is stored server-side, which you should know going in.

aiAllure is run by a named Prague company, but ad tracking starts before you can consent and account data stays six months after deletion. Use with caution.

AIGirlfriends.ai has no known breach, but charges show as aigirlfriends.ai, data is kept until you ask for erasure and payments are final. Use with caution.

Get-Harder has no public incidents but privacy posture is not a strong suit. Verdict: use with caution.

xAI retired Grok's avatar companions in September 2026. Your old Ani chats still live in the X/xAI ecosystem. Here's the privacy and safety picture.

Luvr AI has minimal age verification and no moderation tools. Verdict: caveated. Use with privacy caution.

Muah.ai is not safe in the same sense as competitors: it suffered a major breach in October 2024 exposing 1.9M emails and disturbing prompt data.

MyLovely AI was breached in April 2026: 106,271 accounts, with emails, Discord/X usernames and reportedly user prompts exposed. Verdict: use with caution.

Use Naughty Chats with caution: no company is named behind it, and outside the EEA, UK and Switzerland it records sessions, including your chats.

Secret Desires AI left nearly 2 million images and videos in exposed cloud storage, per 404 Media (November 2025). Verdict: use with caution.

Use SweetDream with caution: a named London company, but ad trackers load with no cookie banner, chats may train its AI and accounts get a public profile.